Women need to get down from their high-handedness, expectations and ideas of what an ideal man is because such a person may not just exists…….. Stop waiting for the guy to drop from the moon because every day you may be walking past him. Women have further complicated issues by overrating infidelity as cheating and now we don’t even know if to classify cheating as a noun, verb or Pro-'verb'...LMAO
In the days of old cheating wasn’t cheating till the P gets into the V or A or M, likewise the V goes into the P or M. these days tough cheating can also be the P into the M or A like F/M goes into to the V-note all this as a verb
But these days cheating is sexting, calling, glanceting, pingting, all dimensions technology has brought into the game………, we now have :
*TIME ORIENTED CHEATING: i.e. short term/ long term, 3 times, 1 week, 1 night stands etc.
*IDEALIST ORIENTED CHEATING: i.e. flings, rationality, morality, reality etc.
*MATHEMATICAL ORIENTED CHEATING: i.e. 20% (before V meets P), 50% (when V meets P), 100% (when P is done with V) and vice versa.
So sweethearts when they say life is a b***h, go out kick asses, they don’t mean it literally no one asked you to be a b***h that way and forget how to be ladies by beating up the other free agents you find with your man, it makes you look bad and makes us feel realy good.
However some relationships (and sadly marriages too) are jokes that will eventually get really expensive.
There are lots of guys who are sleeping with just 1 chick and are willing to dump them the moment they come across someone better meanwhile a lot of dudes have girlfriends and hook up with a lot of chicks on the regular and have no, and I repeat no intentions whatsoever to dump their girlfriends……now that is commitment women don’t get it twisted!
If a dude will dump you for another chick because he had sex with her then you never had much of a relationship to begin with and that should be a major source of worry rather than who he is calling,pinging,texting!
We guys know there is no such thing as a single lady…..hell no! There are no single ladies in the true sense of the word; women receive gifts from men everyday despite being in a relationship but still claim to be totally committed to their boyfriends. They hang out with guys who take them out on dates and expensive dinners when it’s payback time they begin to feign ignorance. Now who is realy not commited?
Every single lady out there has their driver (who pretends to love their company),the call-guy (dude they call anytime their boyfriends hurt them/or they get stood up/disappointed on a date), the to-go guy(dude they call anytime they are bored and want to hangout),the rebound guy (we all know what that means),the Mr. fix-it (fills every other blank uses) and we dudes aren’t stupid we just hang in there still persistent just waiting to leave the friend zone….sometimes we get lucky, sometimes we don’t. sometimes it gets even better we become friends that come with benefits but at some point this same chicks now expect us to leave our present chick(s) for them, like are you for real?????
Take xoxo’s rants in the last posts for instance, I’ve been on her case since time immemorial, being the Mr. nice guy, Mr. Call-guy, Mr. Fix-it,the to-go guy but she keeps me in the friend zone then some dude comes from nowhere takes her on a couple of dates and DANG! she becomes paranoid ‘he wants to tap it!’. #1 the gifts don't come free babe,there is nothing free even in freetown. #2 she won’t admit she’s attracted to the guy only because she can’t have him…because she knows he only wants to hit it, but somehow her mind harbors the thought of taming the dog. Somehow every woman wants to take credit for taming a bad-boy. You don’t tame a bad boy he chooses to be tamed. #3 You got to give it to the Dude he's game is on Point.
It’s just like Kim Kardashian (or any other hot chic for that matter) can’t tell me while she was with her ex-hussy/bfs for example she didn’t go out on dates, receive gifts from men she knew she had no intention of dating but we don’t see that part on TV it’s the same way we boyfriends never hear that part of our girlfriends lives, even when they narrate how their days go that part is definately edited...we don’t see it,hear about it, but somehow we know it’s there.
My point is regardless of what a man does outside most men still remain committed to their girlfriends/wives emotionally mentally spiritually etc. smart women know this and would never throwaway a great guy and/or a wonderful relationship just because her man strays how women know if a man is committed to them isn’t rocket science, you just know it. Its biologically impossible for we men to commit to more than one woman at the same time, commitments are personal feelings not agreements…it’s like marriage we just know when we find ‘the one’.